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4
Apr

stay forever young

 

Natural Woman

Ok, so here we are into Spring. Woohoo – I love Spring! Everything is fresh and new and bursting with potential. It’s all about birth, rebirth, youth, and totally exhilarating vibrancy.

So, with that in mind…..

Being one of those lucky people who looks about a decade younger than my actual age, people often ask me, after they regain consciousness ;0), what is my secret to staying so young and vital – physically, mentally and energetically.

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17
Mar

cleanse & raise your vibration

March is traditionally, for a me, a time of intense spring cleaning. This spring cleaning involves getting my physical space de-cluttered and organized, but more importantly it is a time of internal spring cleaning. To some extent March is my rebirthing month. I recreate the new and improved version of myself, just in time for April. This process is not intentional, it’s my natural cycle and has been going on forever; once I began to become aware of the pattern, I began working with it.

What are your natural patterns, throughout the year? Do you work with them, or work against them and then get frustrated?

As always, at this time of year, I realize it is not the doing that matters, but the vibe. See, at the beginning of the year, I have all of these goals and intentions, and a whole long To-Do list of steps I need to take to reach my said goals. Being a gung-ho kinda person, though, I get so busy and caught up in the doing and completing of tasks that I sometimes forget the most important step – creating right vibration!  Without aligning with the correct energy and vibe, I end up overwhelmed and unable to complete any of the tasks, which then leads to utter paralysis.  No wonder it’s called March Madness!!

Like the Hawaiians say, hang loose! Getting uptight is the worst thing we can do, because it totally blocks up and freezes the flow.

Check yourself, before you wreck yourself….are you chill right now, or kinda uptight and overwhelmed?

So, after a very frustrating, stucky February, I came to remember there is nothing more important than first getting my vibration lined up with happiness, love and faith. All of my success and completion dwells in the chill, love and happiness zone. Duh!!! I know this, I teach this, but seem to forget it whenever at I get too eager to just get going already. But what energy is driving that “get going” mentality? Fear. Fear that I’m not doing anything. Fear that I’m not moving fast enough. Fear that none of my efforts are bearing fruits. Impatience! Fear that I need to succeed, quickly. Fear that I need to make money faster, else I’m a complete failure. Bottom line, fear! Dude?! Is that really the vibration I want to be in? Is that vibration gonna attract cool ideas, clients and success? No! That vibration just makes me tense, crazy and uninspired. That vibration of fear and worry totally demagnetizes everything!

Whoa, I hadn’t even consciously realized I was operating from a vibe of fear, until I slowed down and began the process of internal de-cluttering and spring cleaning. No wonder I was getting nowhere. Conclusion?  Any action taken while I’m still worried, anxious, stressed, unclear or perplexed is a waste of time and counter-productive. Wrong vibe = undesired result = frustration. Again, the most important step to succeed in any endeavor is to first align with the right vibration.

Groovy man. So what is the right vibration for success and how do we cultivate it?

Check yourself before you wreck yourself! Where’s your head at? Get still. Take time to examine your thoughts, feelings and motivations. What is driving you or paralyzing you? Fear and worry or love and enthusiasm? Thoughts of inevitable success or inevitable failure? You always get what you expect, so you better get your thoughts and expectations aligned with success. So, before you even begin tackling your to-do list towards your goal, you better raise your vibration, and get into the happiness dimension – because that is where all of your inspiration and success resides. 

 

10 Ways to raise your vibration, feel the love and get happy.

  1. Dance! Music and movement are proven techniques for raising spirits and vibration. So, slap on your fave music and dance it out. Naturally, this is not the time to stick on Nirvana! ;0) Put on something that makes you happy, positive and groovy. And, dance like nobody’s watching. Rock out!
  2. Go on a hike. Being out in nature is always calming and aligns you with your true spirit, which then recognizes its oneness with all of the vast beauty, and when that happens, your vibe is instantly raised to love. In the vibe of love you begin to see all of the possibilities versus the impossibilities. Not too many people remain feeling like mad and angry little trolls after an hour hike through woods, or along a beach. Don’t live close by to any nature? No worries, parks and streets work too. It’s mostly about walking, breathing and chilling the mind. Focusing on breath, is a mind elevator in itself.
  3. Do yoga. The calming benefits of yoga, upon your mind, body and spirit is without question. A flexible mind and body opens you up to new thoughts and higher vibrations. A morning yoga practice is a great way to get your vibe in the right place at the outset of the day.
  4. Meditate. Still your mind from frantic worries. Once you are calm and silent, your mind and spirit is able to tune into the divine and receive answers to your questions, inspiration and guidance on the right next actions.
  5. Exercise. Hit the gym, run, hit some balls. For some, the tension needs to be worked out in a more intense way than yoga, hiking or meditation. Whatever it takes to get into the chill zone, do it. Get from uptight to loose. When things are loose, things begin to flow.
  6. Spend time with kids or kittens ;0) Children and animals, generally are bundles of pure love, joy and unbridled enthusiasm – get into their groove and enjoy the fun, imagination and love. Be as a little child (carefree and of a all-things-are- possible mentality), to enter the kingdom of heaven/happiness.
  7. Do art. Doesn’t matter your skill level. If all you can do is doodle, doodle! Drawing is something that sets us free from the overbearing, controlling rational mind. Don’t plan to draw anything in particular, draw with the unconscious. Art is art, there is no good or bad, right or wrong. Else, grab a coloring book and just color. Let go. Play. Have fun. Get inspired!
  8. Hang out with a fun and positive friend. Love and laughter are sure ways to lift the spirit and vibe. No friend to hang out with? No problem, watch a funny sitcom or movie.
  9. Make a list of all your accomplishments. Remembering how much you rock, reminds you that you can do anything, once you get into the right groove.
  10. Chant! Repeating mantras or affirmations are powerful mind cleansers. While you are chanting, worries and other negatives thoughts are silenced and are replaced with the new positive thoughts. Positive thoughts and words are like a light and serve to lift our vibration high, out of the darkness  
13
Mar

let there be light!

During the Dot.com bust of 2000-2002, I had a very profound experience that can only be described as my personal spiritual awakening. In this process, I came to fully enlighten to the fact that love is the only reason we are here.  Yeah, sure I understood  and supposedly knew this already. But my previous knowledge had simply been a surface/intellectual understanding of love. Now, it was at a deeper spiritual level. An experiential knowing and alignment, on all levels of mind, body and soul. Thinking love, speaking love, acting love, being love, vibrating love. We are all here to learn how to give and receive love. To love, and to be loved. Love heals. Love sets us free from pain and suffering. Love is the exit from any personal hell. Love opens the doors to all the good stuff. I realized, that it is only through love, that we evolve, as individuals and as a species. Love, is a more evolved state of being than fear and hatred. Love is light. Let there be light! Love lifts us, fear sinks and shrinks us. Fear and hatred are forms of darkness, and are less evolved states of consciousness.

With this new understanding, I saw that I had spent the majority of my time thus far on the planet, hating my life. I spent a lot of time blaming and complaining. Sure, I had many reasons and justifications. But, in this new moment, I decided to let all of the hurts and disappointments of the past go, including resentment towards the current dot.com bust and recession. That was then, this is now. All of that pain and anger, no matter how justified, served only to keep me from my very own happiness. I realized that my early set backs were merely my handicap and challenge in the game of evolving into pure unconditional love and happiness. Even though I had been born into darkness with a major love deficit, I could still become love, love and be loved. I was not doomed to dwell in disappointment forever.

I realized, I would never achieve my highest aspirations in life while a part of me was still swimming around in lower vibrations of fear, resentment, discontent and unworthiness. All of the good stuff I wanted in my life was out of reach, because I was dwelling in the wrong vibration and dimension. All of the happy stuff was floating around in the higher love and happiness dimension, and it could all be mine once I was in the same vibration. Success and failure are merely vibrations. We vibe with what we focus on. Whoa, I finally came to understand what Jesus meant when he said that we could not enter the kingdom of heaven while bemoaning our lot. We cannot possibly attain success while vibing and believing in disappointment and failure. See, in the kingdom of heaven, no one gets in with a fake ID. So your love and happiness has to be for real/genuine. To enter the kingdom of success, your belief in your success has to be real. Your results and experience always let you know where you stand and what you really be(lieve) versus what you want or pretend to be(lieve). You may be able to fake out fellow humans with fakery, but not the kingdom of heaven (your success and happiness dimension).

By (subconsciously) holding onto and focusing on all the disappointments of my childhood and early adulthood, I kept inviting more and more disappointments into my life. Why? Because the Law of the Universe is that we increase what we focus on. It was time for me to increase my happiness in life. The only way to do that was to now shift my focus to all of the wonderful things in my life. In doing that, I began to see how very kind the Universe had been to me. As I began to see and appreciate all the love God/Universe had bestowed upon me, I began to understand that that love far outweighed the love I felt I had been cheated out off, due to lack of parents. Feeling loved by God/Universe turned on a light within me, changed my vibe, and changed my life. 

I am not special. The Universe cherishes each and every single one of us and is constantly sending us signals and episodes to recognize and align with its divine love and abundance. Sometimes we tune-in on our own, at other times we need guides, gurus and coaches.

Whereas before I was mostly an agent of duality; flip-flopping between love and hate, depending on circumstances, I now consciously chose to be only an agent/expression of non-stop love, regardless the situation. Unconditional love and happiness.  In doing this, this planet is one personage happier, the environment is one personage less polluted by darkness and hatred. Won’t you join me, in making the world a more loving and happy environment, by choosing to be an agent of love and light?  The darkness is expelled by each and every one of us consciously choosing to serve/express love alone. 

Stop expressing darkness. If a certain job, situation, person, consistently makes you angry and hateful, misaligned from your true calling, maybe it’s time to make a change, yeah? And if you can’t come up with an alternative, accept and love the situation/person. Love your life and it will love you back. Let there be light!

Sure, I fall out of the higher vibration, every other day or so, as life keeps on sending challenges to test and strengthen my levels of faith, unconditional love and happiness, but that’s ok, with each fall from grace my recovery time is faster. ;0) Sometimes, I surprise myself and see the test as it is happening, and stay firmly rooted in calm, unconditional love and happiness. And when that happens…I rock the dock!! It’s just like in a video game: you go up levels and you fall levels. But once you’ve reached the higher levels, you know how to get there, and get back there faster. You no longer stay stuck in the lower levels. The trick, to maintaining peace is staying awake and aware.

May the light of love and truth overcome all ignorance and darkness.
Om Shanthi.

 

Related Articles

http://www.farzomatic.com/2008/10/be-happy-first/

http://www.farzomatic.com/2008/04/we-vibe-with-what-we-focus-on/

http://www.farzomatic.com/2008/03/letting-go-is-key/